Cowardly and hateful – the online troll.

December 20, 2014

My friend Lily Munroe – who was my partner in crime in launching our campaign against the positioning of Lads’ Mags in newsagents, petrol stations and other similar establishments a year ago – is writing an Open Letter. Still a work in progress.

Part of her letter, however, looks at the intimidation and threats women who speak up receive online and she asked me if I were willing to share any.

I was never going to publish these, but I did keep the most horrible comments made by the same man, in response to the Wicked Campers campaign back in July.
Why did I keep them? Because I’ll never forget how they originally made me feel – but the re-reading of them, on occasion, lessens the impact of those sentiments and helps me strengthen and arm myself against any future expressions of deep hate.

I publish them today to help a worthy cause – which I will keep you updated on.

During that campaign, I received over 300 (mostly positive) comments on this blog, and I responded to just about all of them. Only a few were missed because I couldn’t keep up with the incoming flow, but a few I barred from publishing because they merely insulted and didn’t contribute to the discussion. But the following thoughts – from the same man – were pure venom.

As I was reading this first one, I reached the end of the second paragraph and thought – ‘Isn’t that what I did?’
And then the penultimate paragraph knocked me for six:

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Then he followed with this:

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A myriad of responses may come to your minds as you read these, from: ‘Suck it up, he’s just a troll’ to maybe understanding how it must have felt to ‘hear’ those words – but all I have is how responded.

It was deeply alarming to me – especially how he imagined my brains being blown out in the first comment. It made me catch my breath as I read it, even though a few had had a fair go at it – but this one was different. There was so much hatred in his words. It upset me.

I also had a man in Queensland make a ‘Wanted’ poster of me, lifting an unclear image of me (lucky) incorrectly identifying where I lived (lucky) and saying that if anyone saw me around, that I needed to be ‘taught a lesson’.

Question #219: Imagine if I hadn’t been ‘lucky’ in the first two instances?

I would have been in real danger. Well, I already was, a little.

When women who ASK for something better – not abolished; just better – like getting rid of some particular slogans off a camper van or asking one retailer to remove the horrible game GTA5 from sale in their family store – the bitterness and rage that comes cascading down is something to behold.

And all because we dare to ask.

BUT – more and more articles are being written about misogyny, more conversations are being had and some campaigns are even being won – which is bloody brilliant.

Greens Senator Larissa Waters wrote this piece titled, Australian women can’t and won’t be silenced. She references my petition against Wicked Campers and how it inspired her to take it to The Senate. The motion she put forward, condemning Wicked Campers, was voted on unanimously – just four days after the petition was launched.

Activism works – even though, you might get winded from time to time.

A great way to work those abs, though, right?
Each ‘hit’ will only make one stronger.

Deep Breath.

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8 Responses to “Cowardly and hateful – the online troll.”

  1. I am just amazed that any human being would write such a vile comment to a woman. If he wanted to prove that the men don’t hate women he most certainly failed.

    • It was pretty shocking – mainly because it seemed to get worse as he went along. It was upsetting because it could literally be anyone.
      I quickly got over it, though.
      Yes, the irony of these types of comments is that they generally prove the point. It’s a sad state of affairs but women are not backing down, which is fantastic! 🙂
      Thanks for your comment.

  2. jodiethalegend said

    Reblogged this on Where The Wild Words Are.

  3. Lynne said

    I am always shocked and amazed at the uncivilised behaviour that being anonymous has allowed. Can you imagine this same man having the guts to say these things with his identity revealed. I think not. Keep up the good work.

    • Thany you, Lynne!
      I’m sorry for the late reply – such a busy time.
      I’m working on Round 2 with Wicked Campers, so expecting more. They’re gutless, though.
      Stay tuned.
      Thanks again for your encouraging comment. 🙂

  4. Lewis’s Law in action again. These guys consistently fail to see that their behaviour is exactly what makes feminist activism necessary.

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