It’s a girl! #3

February 3, 2013

A few months ago I saw the disturbing documentary about the femicide of girls in India and China called it’s a girl!

I wrote about the film and its disturbing statistics in the post: it’s a girl.


The following song is written and performed by Omekongo Dibinga. He felt compelled to say something about what is occurring in these countries.

The music may not be your cup of tea, but I love that Omekongo chose to speak up – on this very important and horrific practice.

Below is the link to the it’s a girl! site with the article about this song:

It’s a Girl Inspires Music Video by Hip Hop Artist Omekongo Dibinga

Watching this video and listening to the lyrics have made me feel very, very microscopically small…again.

What can I (we) do to help??

Deep Breath


It’s a girl! #2

November 15, 2012

In a part of my discussion about the ‘Femicide’ of girls in India and China, I referred to the core of its motivation being about greed – especially in terms of the dowry system in India.

Some of the people who commented in response to the post, weren’t so sure about greed being the primary drive – but I’d like to explain my understanding of it:

If an entire nation feels that their current system of female slaughter is acceptable because of the issue of a dowry – then money is the goal.

I think that at this point greed is the predominant factor because sons are revered for what they can ‘bring in’.

Women and girls, on the other hand, are treated like a commodity.

They are always owned.

You may feel that the term ‘greed’ is incorrect (maybe it is) – but I can’t get past the fact that the essence of it is money driven…and all because of the septic tradition of paying someone to take your daughter.

Worse still the amount of violence and ‘dowry deaths’ bestowed upon these poor, poor women – that comes from the parents not paying enough dowry – is again driven by money. Torture, starvation, beatings, forcing acid down women’s throats…

It makes me feel sick.

The following article A Report On The State Of India’s Girls has more devastating statistics like:

* Hundreds of girls born in India are given names like ‘Unwanted’ and ‘Undesired’ by their parents.
* 90% of abandoned children in India are girls.
* 25 million girls in India are married off before the age of 10.
* 53.22% of children in India have experienced some sexual abuse; 22% of them extreme forms of sexual violence.
* Up to 5 years of age, girls in India have a 40% higher mortality rate than boys the same age.

Towards the end of the documentary, a very eloquent Indian woman was explaining how ludicrous it was, that while women like herself try to engage in a dialogue with people who continue these disgusting practices, they end up finding themselves discussing women as if they’re the latest conservation plight – like ‘Save the Pandas’ – except women aren’t an animal – they are fellow human beings.

Question #112: Can we all stand and use a collective humanitarian voice to help these women and girls?


Sign this petition to stop Female Genocide in India:

At least it’s something.

Deep, deep breath.